martes, 3 de agosto de 2010

Self esteem


Self- esteem is how much people love themselves, but there are humans who do not feel that love, and they could hurt themselves. Also, there are people who are dissatisfied because they are always looking for material things, so they are not happy with their lives.

Self esteem is what people think about themselves and how much they love themselves. If people have a good concept about themselves, they will have a high self esteem. On the other hand, if they always think that they do not work to get anything, they will have a very low self esteem.

There are some things that influence the level of value that a person has about himself or herself. First, children are the reflex of their parents, so if adults hurt their children, these little people will feel bad, and, consequently, when children grow up they will probably have a low self esteem. The second point is related to the susceptibility that people have; there are humans who are not affected by what other people say about them, but there are other people that care so much what others think about them.

Nowadays people are shallower than before because there are many famous people in the world, so they want to imitate them. The problem is that some famous people make big mistakes and people still want to be like them. In fact, people provoke accidents like suicides or homicides because they are jealous of other humans. Besides, people are more susceptible to do horrible things because of the bad influence they are exposed to.

Today the number of problems in teenagers is increasing a lot, especially in women. Anorexia is a huge psychological issue in the world. In my opinion, if a woman hurts herself, she does not love her. Actually I do not know how people can hurt themselves, but there are many people who cannot stand the problems that life gives them. And if they have a low self esteem, they will probably find the wrong solution.

People who have a low self esteem are more susceptible to be influenced by this material and stupid world, and nowadays this world has become more popular than never before. People who are influenced by money cannot stop thinking about it and what they can get with it, for example, houses, cars and clothes; they do it to look happy, but they are not.

We have to be happy with all the things that God gives us. Almost all the time we are not satisfied with the way we look or what we have, but we are blessed by Him because we have all that we need to live and ever more. We should accept God´s will, we should also love ourselves a lot.

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